It does far more harm than good

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The use of the word “toxic” now permeates our society. It is used to describe cultural and political rhetoric, relationships that deviate from the accepted norm, parents, children, friends, work culture, and the list grows longer each day.

If someone’s choices or behavior doesn’t fit into a vague definition of acceptable, or if they cause harm, regardless of intent, they earn the label of toxic.

In today’s cancel culture, applying the word “toxic” to someone can have lasting repercussions. Once the toxic label is applied to an institution or person, it is often used to cancel them from worthiness.


Optimizing marketing efforts to maximize results

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Great attorneys have little time to invest in a comprehensive marketing strategy. Branding, blog writing, SEO strategy, social media, and a flawless website design are crucial yet time-consuming necessities to help grow a legal practice.

Many large firms have in-house marketing teams that handle the day to day operations of marketing, but what about smaller firms? Some smaller firms use a legal marketing agency to develop and implement a marketing strategy.

Though there are great marketing firms that specialize in the legal sphere, it can still be challenging to find one place to handle all aspects of digital marketing. …

It increases the chances they will ask you for help.

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As a kid, I remember spending the night with a friend and waking up after a nightmare, alone and terrified. I wanted to call my mom, but I wasn’t sure it would be okay, and I didn’t want to be made fun of for leaving in the middle of the night.

When I was a teenager, I remember getting myself into less than ideal situations with no clear understanding of how to get myself out. In the days before cell phones, I would have had to use a landline phone to call my mom. …

Because it is the only thing anyone sees

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I used to avoid writing about Medium, at least very often. The most important reason was that the work would not be curated, and therefore, would garner fewer views.

Now that curation has changed and does exactly zilch for my stats; I have started writing more frequently about writing on Medium. The irony is not lost on me.

I have 1.6k followers on Medium, and my curated work, even in decent sized publications, is now receiving less than 200 views. But, if I write about my writing experience on Medium, I can exceed that without the “benefit” of curation.


And hoping it doesn’t mark a new trend

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Like most people around the country, our Christmas will look different this year. I felt a little down about all the differences when I realized how petty and selfish it was to bemoan the small sacrifices my family will have to make. The empty spaces around our table are temporary and voluntary, unlike those whose holidays will never be the same after COVID-19.

We are still employed, and our efforts to scale back Christmas shopping are also voluntary. …

Despite the drastic decrease in earnings

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I think that other than a few outliers, most writers on Medium have seen a dramatic drop in earnings over the last few months. The medium itself claims to be adding new members at a rapid rate, so we have no way of knowing why earnings are dropping across the board.

It could be that Medium is not paying writers based on the same formula, or the new algorithm changes designed to give us a “more relational” experience are an epic fail. …

In a world filled with hurting people

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2020 has been a dark and challenging year for many people around the globe. The impact of fear, frustration, isolation, and worry has caused a sharp increase in mental health issues, including substance abuse and suicidal ideation.

According to a study by the CDC, younger adults, racial and ethnic minorities, unpaid adult caregivers, health care professionals, and essential workers are suffering disproportionately worse mental health outcomes as a result of the COVID-19 pandemic.

Empaths that are spread amongst the groups listed above and throughout society are suffering as well. …

Your attacks are a cry for help

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The power of social media can often be used for good. Social media plays a significant role in uniting the country in protests against police brutality and the rallying cry for justice for George Floyd. Social media is also how we stay in touch with friends and relatives, and it allows us a platform to express our thoughts, feelings, and emotions.

Unfortunately, there is a dark side to the instant communication available to us online. Unless you live with very little internet connectivity in your life, you have probably witnessed the cruelty and ugliness of human nature when it is…

Society wants to fix the problem while ignoring the cause

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There seems to be a chicken vs. egg scenario when you talk about abusive relationships and mental health. There is no doubt that abusive relationships take a toll on mental health, but what mental health issues lead to finding yourself in an abusive relationship?

According to Louise Howard, Head of Women’s Mental Health at King’s College Institute of Psychiatry, “there are two things happening: domestic violence can often lead to victim’s developing mental health problems, and people with mental health problems are more likely to experience domestic violence.”

Abusive relationships are complex, filled with dynamics that center around power and…

Which matters more for success

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We write because we love to write, and we all dream of the flexibility to when we want and about what we want. Unfortunately, that type of writing only pays the bills for a lucky few. If you are interested in writing as more than a hobby, you will inevitably have to face a few harsh truths.

Learning these lessons and implementing them will have a profound impact on your writing career.

Marketing your writing is a necessity. In the world of digital content, you may well spend more time marketing your writing than you actually writing. …


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