This article needed to be written and you handled it tactfully. I made the mistake of reading an “my ex was a narcissist” article and Medium has rewarded me with a never-ended stream. Like so many buzzwords used today, the term narcissist is now used to describe anyone who acts in their own self-interest. Everyone has a right to tell their story, of course, but I am glad to see someone taking a stance against the never-ending labels!